the game of comparison

Okay so I debated posting this, but #yoloincolo amirite?

Something that I’ve been thinking about and struggling with recently is comparison. I feel like with Facebook, Twitter and Instagram, it is so so so so so easy to play the comparison game. I have friends who have started jobs all over the world. I have other friends who have just recently got engaged, married or are about to get married. I also have friends who are having babies! I then look at my life and think, I’m graduating a semester late, I’m not dating anyone and I’m for sure not having kids anytime soon. So what am I doing? I start comparing my now to theirs and it isn’t a pretty game. While I’m comparing my life to theirs, I’m missing what is right in front of me. I have had to learn about being content at where I am in life, and apparently over the past few months that lesson has slowly been slipping from my mind. And believe me when I say that learning to be content is one of the hardest lessons to learn.

“Comparison is the thief of joy,” is something I have had to hold close to my heart. It is so true. While I’m busy comparing every part of my life to others, I’m missing what is right in front of me! I am missing what God is trying to show me and I’m missing the incredible things that God is doing in my life. I get to spend my summer in COLORADO for goodness sakes. I get an extra semester in college which has turned out to be the biggest blessing because now I am graduating with a degree in something I love and can use that degree to pursue my passions. Since I’m not in a relationship I have begun to look for jobs all over the U.S., which is so incredibly exciting! There are so many awesome things happening that I have almost missed because I was too busy looking at other people’s Facebooks and Instas.

When I started college I honest to goodness thought I would graduate in 4 years, be in a serious relationship and starting my dream job. While that does sounds pretty awesome, that has yet to happen and I now realize why: God has something bigger and better than I could ever imagine or daydream about and that is so awesome. A verse that my parents both instilled in me at a young age was Jeremiah 29:11. Who knew that at 21 this verse would be something that means so much more than I could have imagined? “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”